tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55905669581910726752024-03-05T08:40:48.905-05:00Mother Daughter TangoThe dance we do with our mothers.Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.comBlogger75125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-46219560086506145262015-01-10T18:54:00.001-05:002015-01-10T18:58:00.714-05:00New Year's Musings<br />
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">It’s definitely the season for diet
drinks and fresh starts, gym memberships and exercise equipment... isn't that normal behavior for the <strong>New Year</strong>? Spell check just reminded me to capitalize
those words, because they signal a new twelve month cycle, 365
days of new possibilities.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yet self
assessment is difficult and re-direction daunting, often causing the wistful
hopefulness of New Year’s resolutions to dissipate quickly. In fact, it’s more
common to give up on self-improvement goals before the end of January, than to
effect lasting change.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">So what’s
a gal to do in the face of needed overhaul, when energy and finances are limited?
The biggest challenge for me is <strong>focusing</strong> on <u>attainable lifestyle changes</u>, and
staying “on track” once I start.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><em>How
about you?<o:p></o:p></em></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>I think a great way to begin is to turn to God’s Word for
direction and help. Favorite scriptures bolster resolve because they remind us
of God’s promises and His faithfulness.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
Apostle Paul’s proclamation that he “can do all things through Christ who
strengthens” him is a faith booster for all who will take it to heart. (Philippians
4:13)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Other verses encourage Christians
to “<em><strong>walk by the Spirit</strong></em>,” leaning on God’s Holy Spirit to direct and change
lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We are further instructed to “be
transformed by the renewing of our minds,” so we “will be able to test and
approve what God’s will is – His good, pleasing and perfect will.” (Romans 12:2)
T</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">o sustain any lasting change, inner
change is necessary; and God is eager that we cooperate with His Spirit so that
we might be “transformed into His likeness with ever-increasing glory.” (2
Corinthians 3:18)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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we determine new goals, we’ll need help to fight lethargy and discouragement.
Recently I noticed this important truth in the Book of Hebrews: “</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong>But encourage one another daily, as long as it is
called Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin's deceitfulness</strong>.”
(Hebrews 3:13)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It seems to me that the
word “daily” is a critical term pointing to sustained effort.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When we keep the truth of the Gospel close to
heart, reviewing it daily, it will be easier to walk in the Spirit and see
positive changes in our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As a
result, the fruit of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5:22-23 (<strong><span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness<i>, </i></span>gentleness and
self-control</strong>) will be produced in our hearts and thus our actions. And by
keeping our eyes daily on Christ’s atoning sacrifice and God’s wonderful grace,
we’ll stay aware of sin’s polluting influence and deceit.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>All that being said, my desire for you is that 2015 will
be filled with blessings for you and those you love.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>May you know the joy and peace of our
Heavenly Father, and bring Him praise. Have a wonderful new year!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Reaching for the silly lunch box stored high on a
shelf in my pantry, my minded flooded with happy thoughts. A gift from my last birthday, it reminded me
of the importance of celebration. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">For folks
like me, a bunch of balloons and noise makers, coupled with streamers and
cupcakes, really make our hormones bubble!
Birthdays and anniversaries, holidays and holy days, give us great excuses
to PARTY. <i>And why not?</i> Jesus told us that
He came to give us abundant life (John 10:10); and when we think of all He has
done in our lives, our spirits want to celebrate.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Over the centuries, however, Christians have gotten a
bad rap. Often seen as legalistic, dour and sour, believers have often been
categorized as <i>party-poopers</i>. Though
we are called to avoid excess, and reject practices that don’t glorify God,
there is much we celebrate and numerous fun ways to do it. Godly celebration is all about thanksgiving,
people and joy. As humans we are created
to experience deep joy and contentment.
Knowing our Creator God, and expressing worship to His Name, releases
joy that is difficult to describe. The
Old Testament prophet Nehemiah proclaimed “<b>the
joy of the LORD is your strength</b>” (Nehemiah 8:10). <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"> Yet many days are filled with
trouble and challenge, making celebration all the more necessary. A new baby, a
new job, graduations, and an Eagle Scout Court of Honor are all worthy of
festivities marking the events. I thank God that He made us to be a celebratory
people who find joy in singing and dancing.
When we are grateful for His blessings, our joy grows exponentially; and
memories of past celebrations relieve stress and bring smiles.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"> Last July I was blessed by forty
folks who gathered to celebrate my birthday.
It was an unusual celebration for a middle-aged woman to say the
least…my party centered around the Minion characters of the “Despicable Me”
movies. I’m sure some friends feared I’d
gone off the deep end, while others joined neck-deep in the frivolity. A sweet neighbor made minion cupcakes,
another friend helped decorate, a few came in costume, and all had a grand
time! There were coloring pages for the
young-at-heart, a photo shoot space, balloons and prizes…my kind of party. The
presents I received were all wonderful, and my friends’ presence even more so. My
college roommate, a precious gal I met forty years ago, made an appearance by flying
down from New York to join the festivities. Truly my heart brimmed with
contentment as I testified to God’s goodness in my life in front of such caring
folks. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Yes, this grandma has a Minion lunch box and a love
for celebration. <b><i>How about you?</i></b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-38268063545227790842014-07-28T13:00:00.000-04:002014-07-28T13:00:20.624-04:00SERENDIPITOUS<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">
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Try saying it slowly. When I do, my mouth moves through the syllables normally,
until the “dip” part causes my lips to slap in a playful way. The mechanics of
it make me pause and even smile. Yet, I can’t remember ever saying it aloud before;
haven’t had an occasion to, in everyday conversation. When I looked up the definition I learned it’s
an adjective, meaning: “something occurs, or is discovered by chance, in a
happy or beneficial way.” I never expected an unplanned inconvenience, on a
dreary, rain soaked day, could turn into a serendipitous occasion. This is what
happened.</span></div>
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catch a flight back home, I swung my sun visor to the side to shield against
the glare. My sudden movement caused the garage door
opener to fling off its perch. Now, my car is small and the opener is the only
one I have, so I made a mental note to check for it when I exited the car to
say my “good-byes.” Of course, caught up
in a quick emotional farewell, I failed to look for the opener. Once in River City, busy with errands, I
remembered to check under my seat and in the back of the car. To my dismay, no garage open could be found!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Storm clouds gathered as I decided to back track to the airport
to see if the opener had landed on the pavement outside Departing Flights. Perhaps it was retrieved by a good Samaritan…
but no such luck. The courteous gal at curbside check-in said no garage door
opener had been turned in, and told me to talk to the security guard about
locating the lost and found department.
At that point, all I imagined was a fruitless search, brimming with
frustration, and the sinking feeling I had lost our only garage door opener. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">What was I to do? I
envisioned myself paying for parking, and traipsing all over the airport in a probable
vain attempt to right my world. So, I decided to pray about the situation,
small as it was. Then I called my husband, and a dear prayer partner, asking
for their petitions and support. Some of you might think I make mountains out
of mole hills, or that I definitely have a screw loose; but when I remember to
pray about small aggravations, I often encounter sweet blessings. Such was the
case that day.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">To my surprise, the security guard standing on the curb didn’t
“shoo” me away, nor was he impatient with me. Instead of being gruff, demanding
that I not doddle along the curb of Departing Flights, he calmly looked up the
phone number for the Lost & Found. Truly a gentleman, he wished me well and
allowed me to linger while I called in search of my lost garage door
opener. The attendant manning the Lost
& Found was equally polite as he took my information and didn’t downplay my
situation. Stunned by the unexpected courtesy from both of these men, I was
delighted to thank them and compliment them on their service.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Driving away into the storm, without my opener, my heart
smiled. I was able to offer sincere
appreciation to two customer service employees, who might not normally get
affirmed in the course of a long day’s work. Indeed, I sensed God’s pleasure as
I complimented them and spread a little of His love serendipitously! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Not only did my inconvenience bless others, but my Heavenly
Father blessed me. That evening, my
husband was able to locate our rascally garage door opener camouflaged in a
cranny of the back seat! A truly
serendipitous answer to prayer. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222;"><i>"Trust in the <b>LORD</b> with all your heart,</i></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222;"><i>and lean not on your own understanding.</i></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222;"><i>But in all your ways acknowledge <b>HIM </b></i></span></div>
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<span style="color: #222222;"><i>and <b>HE</b> will make your paths straight."</i></span></div>
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Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-45401254159602009012014-07-03T20:49:00.000-04:002014-07-03T21:04:12.682-04:00I've Been Tagged!My sweet friend <b>Nellie Todd</b> over at <u>Nellie's Cozy Place</u> tagged me today to answer the following questions! Well...why not? Those of you who have read my book already now so much about me, but these question prompts are more about personal likes. How about you? What would your answers be?<br />
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<b>1) <u>Are you named for someone</u>?</b><br />
Yes. I was named after my precious Aunt Cherie. Cherie is my middle name and it means <i>my dear</i> in French.<br />
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<b>2) <u>When was the last time you cried</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>Last Tuesday morning. I had just finished a book by Kristin Hannah, and the drama she wrote really tugged at my heart.<br />
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<b>3) <u>Do you have Kiddos</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b> Yes, I am blessed to have a daughter and a son, both grown and living in Kentucky, a loooong drive from my home.<br />
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<b>4) <u>If you were another person, would you be a friend to yourself</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>I have to admit, I've never thought about such a question! But, I would say "yes," because I love having friends and being a friend, so I think I would be-friend myself. LOL<br />
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<b>5) <u>Do you have a guilty pleasure</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b> I really love ice cream, but don't buy it or eat it because of the sugar count.<br />
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<b>6) <u>Do you like handwriting</u>?</b><br />
I always wished my handwriting was prettier, like my mom's and mother-in-law's. I treasure handwritten notes, but do most of my writing on the computer.<br />
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<b>7) <u>What is your favorite cereal</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>Oatmeal (hot) or Cranberry Almond Crunch by Post<br />
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<b>8) <u>What is the first thing you notice about people</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>Whether or not they are smiling.<br />
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<b>9) <u>What is the color of your eyes</u>?</b><br />
Blue/Grey. I lady I worked for in a law office one summer (when I was in college) told me that my eyes are the color of the ocean. I've always remembered her saying that. It was such a sweet comment.<br />
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<b>10) <u>Scary movie or Happy ending</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>Definitely a Happy Ending!!! I don't enjoy suspense at all.<br />
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<b>11) <u>Favorite TV Shows?</u></b><br />
<b> </b>Well, my husband is a Fox News junkie; but besides that, we enjoy Blue Bloods with Tom Selleck, and Restaurant Impossible with Robert Irvine.<br />
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<b>12) <u>Do you like winter or summer</u>?</b><br />
Living in the hot and humid South, I suppose I prefer winter, when we get a break!<br />
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<b>13) <u>Hugs or Kisses</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b> Can a girl pick BOTH? <br />
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<b>14) <u>Do you have a special talent</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>I suppose I have a talent for encouraging others, and for stringing words together.<br />
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<b>15) <u>Where were you born</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b> I was born in New York City. Hardly lived there though.<br />
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<b>16) <u>What are your hobbies</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>Reading, Writing, Drawing, Painting and scrapbooking.<br />
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<b>17)<u> Do you have any pets</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>I would dearly love a dog or cat or bunny rabbit. Alas, I have allergies and can not have pets.<br />
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<b>18) <u>What's your favorite movie(s)</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>Miss Potter / August Rush / Young Victoria<br />
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<b>19) <u>What color is your car</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b>Awww, over ten years ago I got a PT Cruiser which I had custom painted after my son damaged the side panel. It is two-toned and I consider it my "mid life crisis wheels!"<br />
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<b>20) <u>What do you want to be when you grow up</u>?</b><br />
<b> </b> A popular author and speaker, making a difference in the lives of others by sharing God's Truth.<br />
Maybe someday that dream will come true!<br />
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Now, precious ones, I'd love to hear <u>your</u> answers!<br />
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And I'm TAGGING a few sweet friends...<br />
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<b><i>Jacquelyn Stager at Life Between the Buns</i></b><br />
<b><i>Elaine Olsen at Peace for the Journey</i></b><br />
<b><i>Linda at Spiritual Memoirs 101</i></b>Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-67178926315374054092014-07-02T09:52:00.001-04:002014-07-02T09:52:56.305-04:00Our FLAG...Stands for FREEDOM!<br />
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I'm emotional this year, as we celebrate the 4th of July.<br />
Perhaps because the America I love is changing so rapidly; perhaps because I sense a growing disdain for our country, our flag, our freedoms.<br />
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Maybe I'm feeling this way because I have lived in other countries and saluted other flags while studying in foreign lands. I truly believe that <b>AMERICA</b> is <u>Exceptional</u>! The Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave. I've heard it said that no other country gives the amount of money in foreign aid that we do! Our humanitarian efforts are unsurpassed. Yes, we are opinionated, but we are generous and quick to help those in need. I pray that we won't give in to a lethargic, critical, socialistic attitude; but that we will esteem our roots: the blessing of GOD and the bravery of those who purchased our national freedom. May we continue to be defenders of life, liberty and happiness. <br />
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<b><i>AMERICA the Beautiful!</i></b><br />
<b><i>AMERICA the Caring!</i></b><br />
<b><i>AMERICA the Free!</i></b><br />
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Join me in praying for this awesome country, that our leaders will have wisdom from on high, and that they will acknowledge the blessing of Almighty GOD. May we <u>humble ourselves</u> and <u>turn from our sinful ways</u> (the greed and selfishness that tries to overtake us), and <u>seek the face of our CREATOR</u>.<br />
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<i><b>GOD SAVE AMERICA!</b></i><br />
2 Chronicles 7:14Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-65470013957631542492014-06-21T20:14:00.002-04:002014-06-21T20:14:45.819-04:00LOVE Without Conditions<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Growing
up, love was elusive. The more I wanted
to feel connected, the more distance I sensed.
I suppose that’s common in households with substance abuse. When parents
struggle to squelch their own emotional pain, there’s not much energy left to
tend to their children’s hearts and souls.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">In
my house, Mother was a classy, complicated alcoholic. Our relationship was always strained. Still, as her firstborn and only daughter, I
yearned for closeness. Then, after years
of shouldering her pain and meeting her needs, I finally broke free. Unfortunately, the scene that followed my <i>betrayal of independence</i> was the stuff
of nightmares.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Mom
was starting a new life in Colorado, ending a failed 20 year marriage to my
dad. She needed my help with the drive
from New Jersey, and the unpacking. The
journey would take nearly three weeks (the summer before my senior year of
college), so I left my part-time jobs and my boyfriend, to be of service. Everything about that trip was a challenge! To
top it off, the movers were delayed by over a week.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Unable
to settle her “nest,” tensions ran high in my mother who tried desperately to
control the issues and people in her life.
Her fury reached a crescendo one August afternoon when I took the
initiative to call the airlines, reserving a return flight to Jersey. Mom’s thinking probably went like this:<b> <i>How
dare</i></b><i> my daughter take matters
into her own hands! How unfair of her to
choose to leave before the movers arrive… <u>before</u> all the work of
unpacking!</i> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Oblivious
to anyone else’s needs, Mom’s anger reached a new zenith as soon as I hung up
the phone. Immediately she unleashed a tirade of abuse that scorched my
soul. Mom physically backed me into the
guest room, where I cowered in the corner, hands over my face. Though I began to sob uncontrollably, she
continued to spew her rage. As she
exited the room, slamming the door, she screamed, <b>“You are the scum of the earth!”</b> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">I
was stunned and broken hearted. Once
again, my efforts to help my mother had fallen short. It wasn’t my fault that the movers were
delayed and we were in limbo, roaming an empty house. But I had taken a stand, making a decision
that was best for me, and she was livid. The wounds her tongue inflicted that
day left lifelong bruises. All I wanted
was to feel loved, and instead I was labeled a disappointment.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Ever
since childhood, I thought love was something you earned. Maybe if I worked hard enough in school and
brought home stellar grades, I’d feel loved.
Maybe if I kept my mouth shut, and only spoke kind words, I’d feel
loved. Maybe if I agreed with everyone’s
opinion, I’d feel loved. Maybe if I lost the extra weight, I’d feel loved. It seemed to me only those who were beautiful
and compliant were loved.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"> However, when the standard is perfection everyone fails. When love is conditional, no one feels
secure. It took years for me to
understand I wasn’t alone in my struggle to feel loved. I finally realized that
imperfect parents, who felt unloved as children, often pass the same feelings
to their offspring. But there is One who
loves us beyond measure; the One who gave His life so we could experience true
love, and live whole.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"> A couple of years after I first met Jesus, He confronted
the neediness in my heart. It had been
over 6 years since that awful episode with my mother, and I was now eight
months pregnant with my first child. Taking
an afternoon break with a book in hand, I lounged on the sofa with my legs propped
up. The afternoon sun filtered through the curtains, spreading a delightful
warmth over my body as my baby kicked softly inside my womb. Absorbed in the
words I was reading, I relaxed and relished the stillness of the house.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"> Suddenly I hear a voice say, <b><i>“Let me love you. Let me love you.”<o:p></o:p></i></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"> At once I recognized the speaker. How like God to interrupt my thoughts,
affirming my heart with gentle assurance.
<u>He loves me despite my imperfections and shortcomings</u>. Ever the gentleman, He asked me to accept His
unconditional love. What a blessing! And just in time. Within weeks I would begin my own motherhood
journey. I needed to be secure in Jesus’
unconditional love, so I could pass it on to my daughter…even if imperfectly.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i><b>This summer, when schedules relax a little, take time to tend to your heart!</b></i><br />
Just as we need to keep after the weeds in our gardens, we also need to weed our hearts for "roots" of unforgiveness and resentment.<br />
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Because my memoir, THE MOTHER GAP, addresses how forgiveness brings connection and peace, I'm offering it along with another timely book as a summer Give-Away. If you've already read these, they still make wonderful gifts!<br />
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Here's how you enter to win: Leave a comment here about a lesson you learned from your mom that has made a difference in your life. I will take the names of those who comment, and add them to the comments on our FB page The Mother Gap... drawing a name on <b>JUNE 29th!</b><br />
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<b><i><span style="font-size: large;">Summer Blessings~</span></i></b><br />
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<br />Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-629084797840000092014-06-06T19:22:00.003-04:002014-06-06T19:23:44.590-04:00The FORGIVENESS FactorWhat if there was a new reality show where all the contestants demonstrated Forgiveness? Let's say the format revolved around recounting instances when folks forgave others and experienced the release of joy and freedom which comes with the true act of overlooking another's faults. How uplifting would that be?<br />
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Forgiveness is something we desperately need.<br />
After all, "to err is human," and we certainly mess up from time to time!<br />
The dilemma is in extending forgiveness when we've been wronged.<br />
It's so challenging when we're hurt, to let go of the grievance, whether small or large.<br />
Hanging on to insults, affronts or thoughtless actions is so much easier.<br />
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But then GOD shows us a better way to live in <u>the life and work of His Son, JESUS</u>.<br />
For Love, Jesus endured the torture of the cross and paid for our sins.<br />
His example encourages us let go of bitterness and resentment.<br />
His HOLY SPIRIT enables us to overlook and forgive.<br />
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My book "The Mother Gap" is a memoir of learning to love and accept one of the most important people in our lives...our mothers.<br />
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It's available on Amazon, so check it out!<br />
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<b><i>~ Live Loved, and Forgive ~</i></b></div>
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<br />Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-54871418437987956212014-05-03T08:29:00.003-04:002014-05-03T08:29:23.545-04:00Honoring MOTHERS!In honor of all the hard working, caring and loving <b>MOMs,</b> here is a <b><i>Tea Time Give-Away!</i></b><br />
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<b>Three ways to enter:</b><br />
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1) Share something about your mother on this blog post within the next <b><u>8 days</u></b> and your name will be entered in the drawing for the <b><i>Tea Time Basket</i></b>.<br />
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2 & 3) Leave a comment on Amazon for my book <b>THE MOTHER GAP</b> (only if you've read it of course), and/or check out the video trailer on <b>YouTube</b> to leave a comment there.<br />
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SO THERE ARE <u>THREE PLACES YOU CAN LEAVE YOUR NAME</u>!<br />
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We will pick the WINNER randomly at 7pm EST on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 11th and notify the them by email to get a shipping address. All the folks who have already posted comments are included!!!<br />
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<b><i><span style="font-size: large;">God bless you this Mother's Day and always~</span></i></b></div>
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<br />Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-11628436916636023522014-04-29T17:53:00.000-04:002014-04-29T17:54:24.402-04:00Almost May and Mother's Day!<br />
Hi All,<br />
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As we say "Goodbye" to the month of April this week, I pray that your spring is off to a joyous start!<br />
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With May approaching, I'm delighted to see <b>THE MOTHER GAP</b> touching so many hearts.<br />
Do you know someone who feels alienated from her mom? Or perhaps, a young mother who might benefit from my memoir and treasure her children more. Copies of my book can be purchased at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or directly from me. It makes a great gift!<br />
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Oh, and I want to share a brand new video trailer for the book. What do you think?<br />
Please leave me a comment with your thoughts.<br />
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Blessings!<br />
JessicaJesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-52738970551285623282014-04-08T21:45:00.001-04:002014-04-08T21:45:34.323-04:00JESUS Bridges the Mother/Daughter GAP!<span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">I have a <b>DESIRE</b> and a <b>GOAL!</b></span><br style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">My <u>DESIRE</u> is to see every woman encouraged in her relationship with her mother, no matter how difficult it is. If hurting daughters receive healing, they won't pass "the hurting" on to their loved ones.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">My <u>GO</u></span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><u>AL</u> is to raise awareness of my newest book, <b>THE MOTHER GAP</b>, by gathering over 100 reviews on Amazon! Can you help me by inviting your friends and family to read it, and post a review? Please spread the news.<br /><br />And BTW, I'm planning a sweet <i><b>Mother's Day Give-Away</b></i> for the person whose name is drawn from those who post reviews (everyone who has posted is eligible)...only <b>32</b> days from now. More info to come!</span><br />
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If you make the deadline (March 29th at 7:00pm), your name will be included in a raffle. Someone will receive the sweet canvas tote bag below. Perfect for Mother's Day! Or course, the book is a great gift idea too.<br />
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<i><b>THE MOTHER GAP: A Daughter's Search for Connection</b></i> is available on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and through me directly.<br />
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<b>Have a Great Saturday Y'all!</b></div>
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<b>~Blessings~</b></div>
Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-36064744158181243792014-03-25T17:07:00.002-04:002014-03-25T17:07:35.965-04:00Give-Away ToteHi Precious Ones,<br />
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If you follow me on FaceBook, you know that I am drawing names this coming Sunday (March 30) to give away a sweet, canvas tote bag.<br />
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The way to get your name in the game, is to leave a review of my latest book, THE MOTHER GAP, on Amazon. I will collect all the names of those who posted and do a random drawing. <br />
I wonder who will win???<br />
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And, it's not too early to be thinking of <b><i>Mother's Day</i></b> gifts!<br />
Do you know a woman who has felt disconnected from her mom, or her daughter? This book would be an excellent gift, especially if she trusts in God. He is the Bridge of Forgiveness that brings connection and healing into our lives.<br />
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<b><i>Blessings to you and yours!</i></b></div>
Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-64863361060537872432014-03-06T14:34:00.001-05:002014-03-06T14:37:30.218-05:00Spiritual Memoirs 101: Congrats to Jessica Errico on publishing The Mothe...As Winter sends its last hard chill, my friend Linda over at Spiritual Memoirs 101, asked to interview me regarding my new book. Click on the link below to check it out!<br />
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">No sooner do candy canes disappear from store shelves, than
heart- shaped boxes of chocolate fill the aisles. Stuffed animals, in all shapes and sizes, holding
red or pink hearts, parade through stores for our perusal. Card companies and
Jewelry franchises market “the sharing of LOVE,” as if Valentine’s Day is the
only day on earth we show our affection. As predictable as candy corn at
Halloween, February ushers in heart-shaped balloons that beckon us to
celebrate. I know this, because I’ve
stood in long lines at the Dollar Store more than once this week!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Despite all of the</span><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> commercialization, the essence of
Valentine’s Day is important, dare I say, essential. Mankind was created for fellowship, and
fellowship springs from caring, which springs from love. In the beginning, a
loving Heavenly Father fashioned man and woman in His image; creating us for
community with Him and with each other.
Our need to be loved is central to our core. <o:p></o:p></span></h1>
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<span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">Yet, why is it that
many flounder to receive love, let alone extend it? Why do angry and resentful attitudes, jealous
and selfish motives, and cruel and thoughtless words often mar our
relationships? <o:p></o:p></span></h1>
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these questions be as simple as, our efforts to protect a “woundedness” we
naturally feel inside? Ever since Adam
and Eve chose to disobey God in the Garden, there has been a disconnect with
our loving Heavenly Father, a gap. Disobedience
breaks fellowship, and causes us to defend our position in order to protect
ourselves. Afraid of being hurt, or
losing control, we often shut God out, as well as the people around us. The “silent treatment” we sometimes employ
with loved ones comes to mind. <o:p></o:p></span></h1>
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<span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> No wonder Blaise </span><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">Pascal, </span><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">renowned </span><span style="color: #343b40; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">m</span><a href="http://www.biography.com/people/groups/academics/mathematicians/"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">athematician</span></a><span style="color: #343b40; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> and </span><a href="http://www.biography.com/people/groups/academics/philosophers/"><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">philosopher</span></a><span style="color: #343b40; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">, </span><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;">wrote the following: </span><i><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">“There is a God shaped vacuum in the heart of
every man which cannot be filled by any created thing, but only by God, the
Creator, made known through Jesus.”</span></i><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; font-weight: normal; line-height: 150%; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";">Indeed, after half a century on this earth, I understand how
we naturally try to fill the God shaped hole in our hearts with anything <u>but</u>
Him. Expensive things and gadgets,
education and fame, lovely houses and large bank accounts…nothing can meet our
need for true love and fellowship, but a relationship with Christ! For, </span><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his
life for his friends” (John 15:13).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">The most important
Valentine ever given was written in the precious blood of Jesus.</span></b><span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">
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<span style="font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">He paid for the debt of our sin on the cross, so we might be
restored to a loving relationship with Father God. His Valentine is eternal! For all who will receive His sacrificial
gift, our hearts are healed and our capacity to love renewed. The love of
Christ fills all our gaps. <i><b>Happy
Valentine’s Day!</b></i><o:p></o:p></span></div>
Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-46389759003423066292014-01-26T17:23:00.004-05:002014-01-26T17:23:29.701-05:00A Needed Shelter<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: .5in;">
<i><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"><b>Brrrrrrrr it’s cold out there!</b></span></i><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"><b> </b> This is the
coldest January I can remember since 1999 when I first moved to the South. Of course the rest of the country is struggling with record snows and winds, and I bet memories of this winter’s
Polar Vortex (our layering-up and piling on covers), are bound to
linger for a long time.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Such
extreme weather has reminded me to appreciate my home much more than I usually
do. Apart from a cozy place to display
my knick-knacks and entertain friends, my house is a strong shelter from the
elements for which I am so grateful. I
don’t want to take for granted such a basic provision, or forget those who are
challenged with homelessness. Too many
families struggle daily to maintain a roof over their heads. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">As I
ponder these things, a prayer comes to mind that leads in an unexpected
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<i><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">“Please Lord, use me and others to help those in need
to find shelter. In these tough times,
give us hearts to support local agencies that help our neighbors who are
challenged financially. ..<u>and</u> help us provide encouragement and support
to those who may be the most vulnerable: the unborn and the women who carry
them.” <o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">You
see, the month of January is not only COLD, it brings the reminder that tiny,
pre-born Americans need the shelter of the wombs in which they grow. It is a “Be Kind to the Unborn” month, as
churches and Christians focus on the sanctity of human life; calling us to
protect women in crisis and the babies nestled under their rib cages. Sometimes this truth hits me like a slap in
the face, when I realize that I’ve forgotten how important it is to provide
women and children with alternatives to abortion.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"><i><b>Life is so Precious!</b></i> The lives of women and innocent
babies deserve options, and tangible support, so that both can live. Please consider donating your time or money
to your local pregnancy care center. There, they
offer a message of Hope to those who are feeling hopeless, to those who need a
shelter from overwhelming circumstances.
And for those who have experienced abortion, our love and understanding
can be a shelter that helps them heal.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">During
these cold months of winter, may we resolve to be warm-hearted people of
compassion; lifting up God’s name, for “The Name of the LORD is a strong
fortress; the godly run to him and are safe.” <b>Proverbs 18:10</b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Warmth and Peace to you <u>and</u> yours!</div>
Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-35112141145333161982014-01-11T18:37:00.000-05:002014-01-12T07:33:42.408-05:00THE MOTHER GAP<b>Happy New Year to Y'All!</b><br />
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<b>Finally</b>, after three years and countless hours glued to my computer, my memoir of searching for connection with my mother is finished! <i><b>The Mother Gap</b></i> is in the final editing process and should be available early March (or SOONER!).<br />
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Are you curious? Check out my video clip at <a href="http://www.indiegogo.com/projects/the-mother-gap/x/5893292" style="font-family: Arial;">http://www.indiegogo.com/projects/the-mother-gap/x/5893292</a><br />
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I'm praying that my story will bring encouragement to a multitude of women who want a better relationship with their mothers. Truly, GOD <u>can</u> bridge the gaps in our hearts and in our relationships!<br />
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<b><i>Blessings always!</i></b></div>
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Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-3036348115007748962013-12-17T19:35:00.002-05:002013-12-17T19:37:56.062-05:00Christmas Already?Oh my, we are in the middle of the Advent season and Christmas is nigh upon us! Do the years seem to be speeding up, or am I just slowing down?<br />
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"><b>Memories
of past Christmases are sweet. </b></span><br />
<span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">I love to
ponder the Christmas choirs, dramas, gatherings, and gifts of years gone
by.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">In the midst of reflecting, one feeling
stands out above the rest: the “holy hush” I used to feel on Christmas Eve,
which still floods my heart with awe.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"> <b> </b></span><i style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"><b>How
about you? </b></i><br />
<i style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"><b>Do you have a favorite Christmas memory?</b></i><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">Seated
in church with family and friends, enveloped by festive décor and traditional
hymns, I experienced an expectancy which was tangible.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">A joyous hush would blanket the congregation
at the annual candle light service.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">As
if pure and gentle snow fell upon us, we were bound together in silent reverie,
awaiting the tolling of the bells at midnight.</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">
</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">No other night felt so “holy.”</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"> </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">And
now, decades later, I’m still thankful to our loving God who prompts that holy
hush by giving the best gift ever!</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">
</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">Despite the stress of holiday schedules, and numerous “to-do” lists, I dare
not miss the true meaning of the season…<i>that Christmas is about the birth of <b>JESUS</b>.</i></span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"> And </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">He was born with a mission to seek and save
the lost.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">Take a
minute to ponder with me some scriptures that point to Christ’s arrival, His purpose
and His love. The apostle Paul wrote to the Galatian church the following: “</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">But
when the fullness of the time came, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman,
born under the Law, so that He might redeem those who were under the Law, that
we might receive the adoption as sons. Because you are sons, God has sent forth
the Spirit of His Son into our hearts, crying, "Abba! Father!" (Galatians
4:4) </span><br />
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fullness of time, God sent His Son, so we could be adopted into His family!</span></b></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"> </span></b><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">The prophet Isaiah wrote centuries before that holiest
of nights:</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"> </span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;">“For a child will be born to
us, a son will be given to us. And the government will rest on His shoulders;
And His name will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father,
Prince of Peace.” (Isaiah 9:6)</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"> </span></div>
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<b style="font-size: 12pt; text-indent: 0.5in;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">In the fullness of time, God sent a Savior,
the Prince of Peace!</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"> Then Paul exhorted the
church at Rome with these words: “But God demonstrates His own love toward us,
in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8) <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"> <span style="color: #cc0000;"> In the fullness of time, God sent a
Redeemer to pay for our sins!</span><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Have you received <b>Jesus</b> as <b>Lord, Savior </b>and<b> Redeemer</b>? This Christmas could be the “fullness of
time” in your life. May you know His
healing grace and life-giving love. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b><i><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #cc0000;">Merry Christmas to you and yours!</span></span></i></b><b><i><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><o:p></o:p></span></i></b></div>
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Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-66248570989219557222013-11-25T20:31:00.001-05:002013-11-25T20:31:18.421-05:00Thanksgiving Musings
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<span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Turkey Day is approaching quickly: all
the groceries bought, dishes cooked, pies prepared, football schedule checked,
and family gathering.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Hopefully you’ll be
able to share this holiday with someone you love, and not get too consumed with
Black Friday deals. </span></span><span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">It’s sad to say, but what
started out as a day set apart for heartfelt praise for God’s provision, has
for many, evolved into a commercial event of gluttony and covetousness.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Forgive me if I sound harsh, I’m just under
conviction.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13pt;"><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></span><span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">How often have I let a lack
of thankfulness minimize my joy?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Too
many times I fear.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This year, God is
teaching me a deeper truth about gratitude.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>He directs those who know Christ (and the priceless salvation found only
in Him) to be thankful in <u>all </u>circumstances.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In fact, the apostle Paul wrote the following
words in his first letter to the Thessalonians:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>“<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Be thankful in all circumstances,
for this is <strong>God’s will for you</strong> who belong to Christ Jesus</i>.” (5:17)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">That sure simplifies things. If
I want to know God’s will for me in any particular situation, it’s to be <u>thankful</u>!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 13pt;"><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Sure, no problem, as long as there
is extra money in the bank, the kids are behaving, both cars are running and my
husband is attentive. It’s the “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">in all
circumstances</i>” part that causes me to stumble sometimes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For when unexpected medical bills arrive, a
car breaks down, the kids get in trouble, or a friend betrays a confidence…I
have difficulty being thankful.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>How
about you?</span></span><span style="font-size: 13pt;"><o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Still, I’m learning the
secret to contentment is <u>thanking</u> God for everything, by <u>trusting</u>
He can use everything <u>for my good</u>. (Romans 8:28)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Is He faithful or not?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Will He provide for my needs, or not?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Just because He may not answer my prayers in
the way I hope, or in the timing I expect, it doesn’t mean He isn’t working
things out for my good.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Last week, it was my
privilege to share about “Thankfulness” with the dear ladies of Victory Baptist
Church.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After a delicious turkey dinner,
I highlighted a wonderful book in my presentation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Maybe you have read it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ann Voskamp’s memoir entitled “<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">One Thousand Gifts</b>” is a precious
account of her journey in praising God for the ordinary “gifts” of life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Thanking Him for a beautiful full moon; for
clean, crisp sheets; for a pre-schooler’s toothless grin; are all ways to
praise God for the multitude of blessings we often take for granted.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ann’s premise is that the continual act of
giving thanks promotes communion with God, service to others and a deep
joy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Now, God doesn’t want us to
“fake” thanksgiving, offering Him hollow or insincere gratitude, but rather to
thank Him in spite of our trials and challenges. He doesn’t require us to be
overjoyed when we are overwhelmed, only to realize He has the power and love to
get us through anything.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">So it was for my family this
past year.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Not only did God get us
through prolonged financial challenges, but also through major surgery and
recovery too.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Though He didn’t answer my
specific prayer for supernatural healing, He provided for my deep emotional
need for connection.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Bringing thoughtful
folks alongside me, not only helped me in my recovery, but filled my
heart.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Oh, how I see His hand of
blessing despite the hardships we endured.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Truly, God’s will for us who
love Him, is to practice thanksgiving as a lifestyle.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A little adjustment to our attitude can go a
long way, for “godliness and contentment are great gain.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> <strong> </strong></span><strong>Let’s be a thankful people, not just in
November, but all year through!<o:p></o:p></strong></span></span></div>
Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-71269721221727956902013-10-29T13:12:00.001-04:002013-10-29T13:14:32.207-04:00Improve Your Connection!It's simple really.<br />
Want to improve your connection with your mother or daughter?<br />
Just spend some quality time with them.<br />
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Make some <b><u>happy memories</u></b>.<br />
Purpose to do something that brings them joy! <br />
What do they like to do?<br />
Go to the movies? Go to a park? Make crafts?<br />
Don't fret over mishaps or challenging logistics...learn to laugh at yourself and<br />
the joy will grow.<br />
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Here are some Moms and Daughters at a recent "GIRL TALK" event at my church. I'm tickled that our Ladies' Ministry leaders are serious about promoting mother/daughter time. It is soooooo important!!!<br />
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So, what can you do <u>today</u> to grow your relationship with your loved one?<br />
How about <u>next week</u>?<br />
Over the <u>holidays</u>?<br />
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I'm praying that you will be creative, keep it simple and have some fun.<br />
<i><b>GOD bless you!</b></i><br />
<br />Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-50984589545802197222013-10-18T15:11:00.001-04:002013-10-18T15:26:15.155-04:00Learning Downline When was the last time you took some time just to reflect?<br />
I mean, when did you stop a minute and assess what you've learned over the years?<br />
If it's been a while, I encourage you to treat yourself to a block of time (maybe just 10 minutes) to think about the lessons you've learned in life. <br />
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This is at the forefront of my thinking because I've been asked to speak to a group of mothers tomorrow who are coming to an event with their young daughters. While sorting through my "hard earned" parenting advice, it dawned on me maybe I should share some of the <u>lessons my daughter taught me</u>!<br />
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I raised her the best I could, praying that she would survive my imperfections. We had our struggles because we are both strong-willed, yet she grew in grace in response to God's Love. As she blossomed into a young woman, I realized she had qualities I admire. Most importantly, she modeled meekness, and an ability to be other-focused with out feeling taken advantage of. Whereas I would naturally want her to strive for the best, she was more mindful of others, allowing them to have the best. This was a frustration at times, even as I witnessed her peace. Though she is still better at putting people first, I am learning from her example!<br />
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What lessons have you learned from the lives of your children? Please leave a comment...<br />
<b><i>I'd love to hear from you.</i></b>Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-52290943695178160912013-09-25T17:45:00.002-04:002013-09-25T17:47:50.385-04:00A Heart for HonorChoosing to honor my mother was a liberating act!<br />
Oh, I thought I honored her during my childhood. I was well behaved and always tried to take care of her when she was ill or hung-over. But <u>real</u> honor involves forgiving and blessing some one. <br />
It is a daily choice that has to be made, and then put into practice.<br />
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<b>Christ forgave me all of my sins, and commands me to forgive the sins of others.</b><br />
My Mom was the best person I could choose to forgive, and thus, truly honor!<br />
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How about you? Do you need to forgive your mother?<br />
Can you accept her for who she is, and not hold her to an impossible standard?<br />
Have you experienced the forgiveness of Jesus?<br />
He is only a prayer away.<br />
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<b><i>God bless you as you walk towards healing and forgiveness.</i></b>Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-43476519642175831882013-09-18T15:30:00.005-04:002013-09-18T16:46:12.623-04:00Stretch and Bend!Conflicts are inevitable in this life, especially between mothers and daughters.<br />
Here's an exercise to follow when someone hurts your feelings! Ready?<br />
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Quickly, before you get entrenched in a 'tude, imagine your heart - and then visualize it bending as you think to yourself: "<strong><u>I forgive you</u></strong>."<br />
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That's one way to repel thoughts of anger and unforgiveness.<br />
It may sound simple, but in the heat of the moment, this takes intentional focus!<br />
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<strong>Stretch your will, by choosing to forgive.</strong><br />
At first it might be a struggle. You know, our humanity is pretty self-centered...<br />
but<strong> Jesus can help you</strong>. He modeled true <u>forgiveness</u> for us and <strong>His Spirit helps us do the same</strong>.<br />
By thinking to yourself, "I forgive you," you are freeing your heart from the pain of unforgiveness.<br />
Yeah! Keep your heart open and free.<br />
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So <strong>stretch towards love</strong> and <strong>bend your heart</strong>, do this as many times as needed <u>each day</u>!<br />
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Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-4151491158368391742013-09-17T22:50:00.002-04:002013-09-18T14:44:30.044-04:00Calling All Daughters!<strong>Have you ever struggled in your relationship with your Mom?</strong><br />
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Is it too easy to take her "<em>suggestions</em>" as criticisms, and too hard to forgive her for having "<em>loving</em>" opinions?<br />
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<strong>If so, I need you to spread the word about this blog!</strong><br />
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My heart is to encourage daughters to have better relationships with their mothers. I yearn for mothers and daughters to love each other, and stop comparing each other to an impossible standard. Amen?<br />
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Actually, my desire is to share how forgiveness and unconditional love, set me free to love my mother despite all the pain between us. It's a heart-warming story about how a Great God, enabled me to love and serve my Mom the last four years of her life.<br />
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<strong>Here's where you come in...</strong><br />
I'm just about finished with my book, and I need a platform (you know, that buzz word that means "people's attention") in order to catch the eye of a publisher. <br />
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So, I will get busy writing on this blog if you will get busy inviting gals to check it out and follow! Deal?<br />
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See you here tomorrow, and thanks from the bottom of my HEART! Really!!!<br />
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<strong>Blessings~</strong><br />
Jess<br />
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<br />Jesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13742425014656556927noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5590566958191072675.post-74236294961749682632013-07-30T23:04:00.001-04:002013-07-30T23:04:56.688-04:00Writing and ReadingIt's been over seven months since I posted on this blog. Life has been full and busy. Beginning at the end of March, my main goal was to recover from major surgery. With God's healing touch and physical therapy, I'm back to functioning and writing.<br />
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My "down" time afforded much opportunity to read. I highly recommend the five book series by Lynn Austin: Gods & Kings. These Biblical fiction tales deal with three of the kings of Judah: King Ahaz, King Hezekiah and King Manassah. Intriguing and well worth your time!<br />
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I also just finished a memoir by an author who contributes to the New York Times. "Mother Daughter Me" is a powerful story about loss and forgiveness. Author Katie Hafner shares about her relationships with her mother and her daughter with transparent grace. When divorce, alcoholism and abandonment impact a family, no one escapes unscathed. And yet, when hearts seek to understand and extend love, the impossible is possible.<br />
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Well, I've reached the half way mark on my memoir. It is a far more difficult task than I ever imagined!<br />
Hopefully, by year's end, I'll be able to release it.<br />
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Wishing a very Happy Summer to you all! <br />
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